比如，我发现尽管平心静气地说话很难，我的丈夫就有这种超赞的性格，说话几乎从不刁难我。我努力记着，我爱他身上的那些优点，把让我心烦的琐事抛到脑后。说起来容易做起来难啊。多亲吻他几次，多拥抱他几回，多爱抚他一会儿,什么造就成功呢-(What makes success-)，这些我下过决心要做的事，很有效地让我一直感受到爱的温暖，心存感激。
你的婚姻，或者长期的恋爱中有哪些误会呢？有没有找到解决的办法呢？
One of the main twelve themes of my happiness project is marriage. For me, as with many people, my marriage is one of the most central elements in my life and my happiness. When I started my happiness project, and I reflected about the changes I wanted to make -- as well as the resolutions I wanted to keep in order to bring about those changes -- I realized I had five particular problem areas in my marriage.
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